Weekend to Remember

This past summer, Laurie and I attended the Weekend to Remember put on by Family Life. This is a weekend conference on marriage that Family Life has been doing for many years. Whether you’re newly married, an old pro, or considering getting married soon, this event will bless you.

From their website:

Great marriages require intentionality and investment—just like a garden that must be watered in order to grow. FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember getaway offers:

  • Biblically-based insights from top speakers and marriage experts.
  • Relaxing alone time to rediscover the reasons you fell in love, free from distractions
  • Helpful tools, projects, and resources for an immediate impact on your marriage.

We first attended the Weekend to Remember 20 years ago. It was okay.  Going for only the second time this past June, we both really appreciated the weekend. Our marriage isn’t a mess, we’re not in any trouble, nor are we finished with the whole ‘sanctification process’! We’re pretty average people. Some people think a conference like this is meant for marriages in trouble.  Honestly, I was pleased to find people at all stages of marriage: the engaged, the newly wed, the new parents, the empty nesters, and yes, there are testimonies of those barely hanging on.  All stages!

I’m writing to encourage you to invest in your marriage, no matter the stage of life you’re in right now.

You can go to our church’s website and register through us for a good discount.  The dates are Dec 9-11.

#PrayforGrace

 

Yesterday was our third study in the Esther series, “The Quiet Work of God”.  At the close of the message I shared that I would step away from the series for the next two Sundays so I can give some practical application from our series for our church, Grace Community.  In other words, it’s time to have a talk.

The final challenge was asking our church family to pray for Grace, especially as we enter these next two weeks.  #PrayforGrace. Esther had the Jewish people fast for 3 days before she would present herself to the King on their behalf.  I’m sure that included prayer, though the text doesn’t say that.

This morning I spent some time in my kayak on Lake Mary as I have on several early mornings this summer.  I have the entire lake to myself.  So I don’t just exercise and think of my day, I get to pray and pray out loud. Not for you or anyone else to know, but to talk out loud to God as though He was in front assisting with the rowing.  #PrayforGrace

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I’m praying for our church, that we would be as courageous as Esther, even when we don’t know what the next step will look like (more on that in yesterday’s sermon!).  If you’re a part of the Grace family, join me in praying for God’s people and the mission He has us on.  If you’re from another church, go ahead and pray the same thing for your church, for your pastor and leadership.

Where ever you are, make space for prayer. Just you and God talking. Talking about what’s on your mind, what’s on His.  Being thankful. Giving thought to what’s ahead.

Let’s Be Ready!

I absolutely love this week. Here’s why:

I am He who lives, and was dead, and behold, I am alive forevermore. Amen.”  Rev 1:18.

Tomorrow evening we will have two Good Friday services at our Ministry Center.  The first is at 5:30 with childcare for infants to preschool. The second service will be at 6:30.  This is a special time for the church to gather and consider the cross of Jesus.  We will remember the Lord’s Supper together during our service.

Then Sunday!  For the first time, we’re having two Sunday morning services at Sinagua. The first is at 9 and the second will be at 10:30.  There will be children’s ministry during both services.  The only change is that you will check your child in, and they will go directly to their classes.

I came across this blog from church consultant Thom Rainer.  Rather than trying to reword it and say the same thing, I paste it here for your edification!  This is good stuff to remember as we come on Sunday morning.

Nine Considerations for Church Members This Easter

It will be one of the highest attended days of the year for your church. It may be the highest.

There will be some people you don’t know. Some of them are guests. Others are members who attend infrequently.

You have an opportunity to make a gospel impression on these people with a few simple acts. Indeed, you have an opportunity to make an eternal difference. Here are nine servant actions for you to consider.

  1. Pray as you enter the property. Pray for the guests. Pray for the services. Pray for the pastor and the sermon.
  2. Park at the most distant spot available. Save the closer parking places for guests.
  3. Greet people. They may be guests. They may be members. It’s okay to introduce yourself to either.
  4. Look for people to help. You know the place well. Many others will not. Be a guide. Help someone who looks like he or she needs help.
  5. Sit as close as possible to the front of the worship center. Save the back rows for guests and late entrants, so they don’t have to walk past so many people.
  6. Sit in the middle. Don’t claim that aisle seat where people have to walk over you or past you.
  7. Sit closely. Your worship center may be packed. If so, be willing to sit together.
  8. Volunteer to serve. As the number of attendees increase, so does the need for volunteers. The parking team, kids ministry, and church greeter ministry are a few of the areas that will need more volunteers to help serve and minister to members and guests.
  9. Pray as you leave. The Holy Spirit is likely working in many persons who attended. Pray for His continual work of conviction and comfort.

These are simple acts. They are acts of service. And if you survive doing these acts of kindness and service on Easter, you just might be able to do them on other days of worship as well.

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Books and Bibles

For some time now I’ve noticed the difference between using my electronic, digital Bibles (mostly on my iPad, sometimes on the phone) as compared to using my regular, print Bibles.  I have never really left the printed Bible for my devotional reading or preaching.

I grew up using mostly one Bible, until college. I remember the pastor saying, “let’s turn…” and we did. Everybody. The sound was awesome. But better than that was the familiarity I had with my Bible.  I grew to know where certain passages were on the page.  Obviously, with time and a growing library of Bibles, I lost some of that.  I appreciate the various translations that have been produced through the years for the benefit of study and clarity, but I really do miss everyone (mostly) being on the same page.

I came across an article recently that I resonated with on a similar topic: digital books. I have a great library in print but an outstanding library in digital format. I read with the Kindle app on my iPad mostly, then of course there’s the enormous Logos library that still blows me away every time I open it.

Yet, Michel Hyatt’s words spoke to me of the reality that there’s just nothing like reading the printed book over the digital.  I too have no plans to disband the digital library or the continued building of it, yet I feel the freedom to admit that I not only like but need to return more to the printed library, mostly for the same reasons Hyatt mentions in the linked article.  You should read it. I won’t copy it here, but go check it out.

I love that many people read the Bible electronically, and I will too. But there is nothing like the familiar feel and sight of my Bible, with underlinings and notes and worn corners.

What do you think?

The manger, the cross, and the tomb

He came

He died

He rose from the dead

That’s been our theme this Christmas in “The Wonder of Christmas”. It’s still a wonder that He came to us in a manger. It’s a wonder that He took my place on a cross. He died for me. It’s a wonder that a place where dead bodies lay is found empty. He arose victorious over death. So I,too, can know eternal life!

When you see the manger you must see the cross. He didn’t just come on a silent night. He came in humility to take on my punishment.

When you see the empty tomb, you know He’s alive and He’s coming again.

Join us at Grace Community tomorrow for one of our two Christmas Eve services at Sinagua.  The Wonder of the Manger.

Come at 4:30 (with childcare for infants through preschool) or at 5:45 (with no childcare). All are welcomed! Invite family and friends to join you. Arrive early. You don’t want to miss the opening!

Merry Christmas

The Truth behind Giving Thanks

My house is full of family and there are about 7 different conversations going on and a few singing and a game is being played and pictures are being shared and others are in the kitchen grazing.

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We had a great thanksgiving day with all the traditional treats and accompanying stresses of hurrying up and saying hellos and goodbyes all too quickly.  Thanks for all who came and shared the day together.

I woke up this morning feeling lousy. Like sick. I probably won’t die of this, but just enough of a sore throat to keep me somewhat isolated and careful at best. So, here I sit in the other room, listening and checking in with you.

Like some, Laurie and I have a pretty quiet home. For whatever reasons the Lord never gave us children. We love the extended families that we share. But there’s nothing like family actually filling the house. IMG_4679Thanksgiving 2015

Our hearts are full.

Laurie would say that too, but now she’s busy playing Christmas songs accompanying a few of the sibs.  All is good. Truth is, it’s always good because God is good and His gifts are good. Somedays we get to live in the awareness of His goodness more than others. So, with grateful hearts, let’s never tire of saying Thanks. To God. To each other.

The Big Finish to the Beatitudes

“Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Matt 5:10 ESV

Why does “persecution” follow “peacemakers”?

When is my suffering persecution and when is it just punishment?

“When a man is called on to suffer something for his Christianity that is always a crucial moment; it is the great occasion; it is the clash between the world and Christ; it is a moment in the drama of eternity. To have a share in such a moment is not a penalty but a glory.”  Barclay

This past Sunday we finished the first section on the Sermon on the Mount as Jesus did; with talk of persecution and the desired blessing that comes with suffering for righteousness sake.  To follow the saints and prophets who have gone before us, to be different from the world, not because we’re righteous, but because Jesus is. To taste of the agony of being called names and mocked at, all because those who don’t yet know Jesus only know there’s a difference. And we’re called to live in that difference.

“Brothers, we are treading where the saints have trod.”

  • Pray for the persecuted church around the world.
  • Pray for brothers and sisters in your community being harassed and mistreated as they live out the Kingdom principles of Matt 5.
  • Pray for a prepared heart for when the insults and rejections come your way.
  • Rejoice and endure

When reviled, we bless; when persecuted, we endure; 13 when slandered, we entreat. 1 Cor 4:12-13

41 Then they left the presence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer dishonor for the name.  Acts 5:41

10 For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Cor 12:10

Give thanks to the Lord for what He suffered for our sake and for the privilege to be called His.